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beanie - 2008-11-20 03:52:32
After that, you had an actual conversation?? I'm impressed. With my ex it would have been an argument..
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Poo - 2008-11-20 20:06:39
Wow, sounds like you're in quite a predicament there. I hope you are able to find a happy medium. *hugs*
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LA - 2008-11-23 02:59:19
Hi. Going backwards here. Wow. I missed a lot! Hope it doesn't sound too snarky to say you already have two kids. I spent 25 years with a child-man who retained ultimate veto rights but did ZERO suggesting, planning, helping, etc, etc. So I can relate. On one hand since YOU will do all of the work then whether to take on another kid should be your call. On the other, defying a "I don't wanna" man just means endless suckage and passive-aggressive retaliation. So either you give him his way or you get the joy of your new son, plus all the work of running everything and raising two children and your man making it a zillion times harder. Sure I'm projecting here, but having been to the wars I have to put in my weary veteran's view. If the potential joy outweighs the negatives then by all means get you your son. The delight and the love will sustain you. ~LA
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